At a time when there is so much pain and negativity in the world, I have reflected on some of the positives in our household which have made me smile, as I surged into my normal role as head of household when there is a crisis.
Life at Yellingham has had to change and I leapt at the opportunity to set some new “economic operating rules” for the household. With my Sergeant Major hat firmly in place, the new rules just kept coming and coming. Poor Edward really did think I was losing the plot. These are just but a few: “Right 
Edward……… turn the toaster off at the wall – if you want toast stick it on the hot plate of the Aga; Put the electric kettle in the cupboard – use the big kettle on the Aga – don’t moan if it takes too long, just don’t fill it so full; Turn the dishwasher off at the wall – don’t use a new mug every time you want a drink – we’ll wash up once a day at the end of the day; The washing machine – one load per person per week maximum – clean socks and underwear are permitted daily (although I was tempted to suggest turning socks inside out so 1 pair every 2 days). With social distancing very much at the forefront, people walking past the gate won’t notice the odd bit of body odour; Finally washing – remember we pay for every drop of water – long showers and deep baths are a thing of the past – one sink of hot water morning and night for a good strip wash – start at the top and work down – feet last. A shower is permitted once weekly or more frequently, if a solid case is put forward. I felt fairly pleased with my new lifestyle changes and the silence that followed the delivery of my plan suggested to me that Edward was happily in agreement. However, in his normal quiet, unassuming manner, he said: “Why don’t you just turn off the Aga, it will save far more money than all of your sanctions put together”. His reply did shake me for a split second, but my reply was delivered in my not quiet, not unassuming manner: “Edward…. I love the Aga and it is a pleasure that I am not giving up, unless the world’s supply of oil dries up”.
PS We are still speaking, and all is going well … apart from the toast. Edward keeps burning it and setting the smoke alarm off. I won’t say anything but I might turn the Aga down and save on bread purchases….. oh and possibly on oil !!
As I write, I am looking out over our orchard in full blossom, green fields, ploughed fields and woodland bursting into life. Every day I remind myself how very, very lucky we are to be living in such a beautiful part of the world at such a difficult time. We must never forget or take such beauty for granted, but embrace it every day of our lives.
Janet
